H and I are still living together - still sharing the same bed in fact. Right now we are on friendly terms, I guess you would say. We still do things together with the kids like eat, go to the movies, and even to church. However, H shows no interest in working on our R. I am friendly towards him, but I am not going out of my way to be "friends" with him as I am distancing. I know he wants to remain friends even if we D. I will tell him absolutely not, if it comes to that! I will be civil, polite, etc... but I am not going to make it easy for him to have me there for him and cut and run at the same time!
A lot for me depends on how this marriage "retreat" weekend goes next weekend. I'm biding my time on any further actions until after that weekend. www.savemymarriage.com for anyone who wants to check it out.
