he texted me and told me that he found me very cute. i had nice eyes and a nice smile. this was after i told him that i wasn't interested in a relationship.
How does that make him look to you?
Going out for coffee and interacting with other people is good it lets you start to become discerning and aware of other peoples behavior.
Do you see how your thinking changed your emotions and then your actions?
Cheers
ps Bitchy and bossy (fear based) is not the same as confident and assertive (love based).
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.