At risk of sounding like a cold hearted b!tch I'm gonna throw this out there ...
If H had cancer that caused him to say hurtful things, use me sexually while having a relationship with another woman , walk away from our family, blame me for everything, be unable to accept responsibility for his own life, and lie to me and our family and friends and our councellor ... you know what... maybe I would.
Would I stop loving him? No. Would I stop tolerating being treated in such manner? Yes. Would I get to know myself, find my truth, own the parts I contibuted to and vow to move forward not making the same mistakes again? Hell YES.
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
