Since I will be discussing all of this with D18 on Monday (she returns from cheer camp late Sunday night) what is my approach with all of this? How can S and D help the marriage? What is it that I need to show/tell D18 and S16 so they know "how to be" in all of this?
I know you have talked at length about how families/friends of the marriage can support the M. How do you do this when it's your S and D?
I am going to pray deeply about S14. While technically he's old enough to be involved, I have to be cognizant of where he is at. I truly think it's best with him to wait to expose if he has to know, due to his Aspergers.
