What I am trying to say and I don't think that you are that far off from my way of thinking. It seems to me that you might not be understanding what a MLC is. Your H is sick, he has a mental illness. If he had cancer would you feel the same way? This is no different. So you can tell me he is not sick or that you don't believe in MLC, but to be honest I don't agree with you. Your thinking on that is wrong! OK sorry to be so blunt.
If you want to continue to disagree that is fine. I am just telling you what I think.
I get exactly what you are saying Lance. I do. And I do actually have a decent understanding of what MLC is, I've been reading the resources. That being said, I believe that he was a WAH before the MLC hit (and I do think the MLC is mild if there is such a thing). So yes, I do think he's sick, but he was DONE first emotionally. To me it changes things. We would still be here even if he hadn't hit MLC.
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
