You did the right thing to hang-up.....tho I can see BH's side, me Im a go for the throat kinda person too. But you would just get mired in all that family blood. They are all pretty dysfunctional except for one sister i guess? Wasnt it grandmother who wasnt "allowed" to talk to you" by grandfather? remind her that next time she calls.
you still have healing to do b'fore you are ready for a R. When you get past this and get your $$ life will be on an even keel for you. You will find someone worthy of you and those 2 great sons. Your lite will shine brightly. Is there a chance when stuff gets settled you could move like you wanted to?
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
