Hey guys, thanks for posting! (Special hello to Naturally Blessed.)
BD, I haven't even looked for an MC for more than 5 minutes. Gotta get back on that. I think he'll be open to finding someone else.
But he has to show consistency now. I think he will (he has sent me probably 10 texts from last night to this morning!), but I am being cautious, like NM said, until we are really in the full swing of therapy.
AND if he is bipolar... well, that's a whole new ballgame. That will be really difficult. I hope he's just clinically depressed.
And the other thing is that I have to want to take him back! I still don't know what he's done in these past 6 months... oh boy.
Oh and P, in response to him I just said 'okay' and that I wanted him to know that I wasn't resentful of him because little girl and I were living by ourselves. I said that the setup was nice because moms and babies need each other so much. And we don't have to worry about bothering anyone else with our weird sleeping habits.
I think this desire to go to counseling came from him moving out of "our" apartment. We'll see if it lasts!
ps-- I'm a kick-a** detacher, but I don't think I'm an awesome DBer. There are many others on this forum who deserve that! Gotta give a shout-out to NM!
