MLC spouse projecting their negativity onto the BS

[Truegritter]

I had another thought to share

(Did your hear that? that was all my friends on here going "really Grit?")

You will hear that this thing that has happend to you and your M

...is a gift.

It is.

Before you can know grace and love you have to experience its absence.

You have to experience its opposite so you will recognize what it is not.

Most people never have their idea of love tested.

And that is why most people will not understand what you are doing.

They may call you a doormat

or say you are sacrificing yourself.

or why would you stand for someone who treats you like that?

But just as I am telling you this you will not believe it until you experience it.

And to do that IMO you must first choose to stand for your M.

Maybe not for the reasons I descibe here but for other reasons.

You want answers to questions and then...

When you have gone down the road.

...the questions don't matter any more.