I'm just curious; is your son's opinion about what you should do based entirely on his mother's infidelity, or does he have any pre-affair marital opinions?
He is a very black and white person when you are talking about anyone other than him. His opinion is that there are some things that just are not acceptable in marriage, and her actions meet that test in his mind. He was just as shocked as I when he was told and has never said anything to make me believe his views are based on anything other than the current situation.
Had a rough night sleepwise, but not for the typical reasons. Struggled getting to sleep and then woke up every half hour. Ended up getting between 3 and 4 hours. However, my mind was not filled with thoughts of her or our R. Instead I was thinking about how to handle issues like dating and sex as I move on. I know I am not ready for either of those right now, but the idea is intriguing enough to hold my thoughts.
Off to a friend's son's baseball game about an hour motorcycle ride away before hanging out at home with the dogs for the afternoon. No bicycle ride today as I try to do 2 on, 1 off for my body. Who knows, maybe I end up back at the swimming pool again tonight.
In the interest of full disclosure, the friend I have been talking with is a woman from my previous workplace whose husband left her for OW about 8 months ago. She is about 6 months ahead of me in this process and has provided some tremendous insight.
Have a great day everyone.
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M - 43 WAXW - 42 Married - 24 years Together - 25 years S - 23 - passed away 10/17/09 S - 22 Bomb - PA - 6/23/10 - WAW moved in with OM same night D-day - 9/17/10
