Cathy,

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Interesting Deb, as I used to think my H wanted me to react to his mood or maybe I did react to his mood, it became my mood. Now I'm noticing that when his mood is distant and I act detached and upbeat, he'll come closer.




Funny, that was what backfired on me!
Could be it's because your H is a man's man type; domineering type, bossy type. My H isn't. My H likes to share tasks, like furniture shopping, grocery shopping, school supplies ect. He wants to be a part of decisions that are made. I guess you could say that if I had a H like yours I'd probably give him a black eye! LOL

Anything I detest is a man who thinks a woman is below him!
Just my 2 cents


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