WAW Wants to Be Alone

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Wife just texted me at 11:45pm out of nowhere and I can tell she's drunk just by the writing...

"Sooooo are you going to sign the papers?"

This is a dissolution, not a subpoena... I actually was going to sign them 2 days ago AND told her that in writing and over text.

She NEVER SHOWED!

Is she picking a fight? Is she with her boy toy? How do I read this?

I'm seriously starting to think she is going crazy. She changes her stories and asks the same questions when she's already gotten the answers. Please advise on how to handle this.

Have you taken the papers to your attorney for the once over?

I don't want you signing anything unless it is heavily tilted in your favor.

If you have the papers in your possession, I'd pay the 250 bucks to get the opinion of a good attorney on them, and you can put an attorney on retainer and draft something better if you need to.

Otherwise, ignore her. Let your attorney talk to her attorney.

I signed my wife's dissolution agreement after my attorney made modifications (she basically got nothing out of me), had them notarized and shipped over to her attorney all within about 3 days of her attorney having a draft ready.

You have to decide what is right in your case. My wife was pressing very hard for divorce, so I just decided... "fine, then let's do this so that I can get on with my life".

Later today we are going on a "date".

Go figure.