You can post anywhere you want to, that makes no difference. You know you should be on the MLC board but refuse to post there. Everything that is going on with your H is perfectly normal(for MLC). Have you read the MLC resources? Go to the start of almost anyones thread(newbies in MLC) and their are links for the resources and other good threads. READ THEM. You have been getting good advice here. You have detached and things are moving forward. But you are a long way from being done and a long way from being back to piecing. The fact that you are not posting on the MLC board should not be a reason to not understand what is happening to your H within this process.
You can do the research you need to. Most of it is all contained here on these forums.