I just found some humor in it, but I do love this post. Thank you for bumping it. I also like the "Act as If" post...that is MY favorite.
Quote: In my sitch, when I totally detached from H, he totally detached from me. When I complimented and was being his friend and loving from a distance That's what seemed to work at him coming closer.
Interesting Deb, as I used to think my H wanted me to react to his mood or maybe I did react to his mood, it became my mood. Now I'm noticing that when his mood is distant and I act detached and upbeat, he'll come closer.
