Wife filed for divorce...Is there still hope?

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My W filed for divorce, and she is currently having an affair with a co-worker. We live together with our D and S. Also we sleep in the same bed, but it is only sleeping. I find that I now no longer think I want the M, and I do not see reconciling as an option. I just do not have anymore trust or respect for the W I see everyday. I do not know if I could give my heart to her the way I had before.

It is a shame that the kids will be part of this family that they want together so much. My four year old S has prayed for our family, and he says our family is "messed up." I feel so bad for them.

Is it too late? I don't know!

I told my W I would never give up on our family, and I now believe that I have given up on the marriage. I never thought I would stop trying.

It is very sad to me that I don't have "hope" anymore!!!