Detaching: What I wish I knew then that I know now

[Jamesjohn]

To be honest with you, this here was kind of a selfish bump for me, to keep this up closer to the top, so I could keep reading it.

I think that no matter where you're at in your relationship, detaching from some situations, actions, and circumstances, is key to keep yourself, and your relationship, going. I've been having to use this a lot, especially the past couple of months.

Fortunately, it's been working for me, and for "us". It's been helping to give me some better insights into what things are "her" problems, what things are "my" problems, and which things are "our" problems. It's a pretty fine line in there most of the time, especially when you're spending a lot of time right in the middle of it, without taking a step back every once in awhile.

At least, that's the way it is for me.