He is probably controling because some idiot is behind the scene trying to convince him that you will try to take him for a ride. Nevermind, everything he is putting you through.
oh yes! later i learned how his coworkers told him to do this and that, the ones that were screwed over a D, etc etc, they think the Ws will go for the jugular... it's truly pathetic.I too got no notice, x just moved out and the next week I got papers, and he cleaned our bank accounts...I know how you feel, I'm sorry honey... From now on do things with you and girls in mind, never mind what he wants... you are still processing things, so you tell him that you are not ready to deal with this legal stuff (buy time to check with your lawyer and to gather your wits)... that because of the the chichen sh@t way he went about this you are just not ready and he's just going to have sit and wait.
Doesn't matter if your name wasnt in the house, you still should get benefits, and contact your employer telling him that the direct deposit should be stopped and they should give you a paper check.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
