I love W and am extremely happy for the 20 mostly good years together, but I have a lot to offer and there’s a lot yet to experience. I want to be happy. Now and for the rest of my time here. That can happen together, but if not, it MUST happen apart. I will not live this way. I WILL be happy. However that occurs. I love this quote. I think this is exactly the attitude that we all need to take. We will work on it but if it is not to be we will be happy elsewhere. With or with out them. There are lot of fish in the sea so to speak, everyone here likes thier fish but sometime we must throw that fish back and fish again. We most likely will catch a much better one that will not lead us to this board or at least I hope that for everyone here.
