Same thing happened to me, idiotic x brought over a gf to live with him without the kids even meeting her beforehand..I ended up taking kids to a child C to help them cope, you might want to think about it, the C will also talk to dumb-dumb to explain him how this affects the kids ... it might not change much or anything at all, but it will help kids. Even the C laugh when I told him how my x thought my complaints had to do with jelousy 'he is so full of himself' she said... and they are at that stage.
Keep busy busy... it was hard at the beginning for me to find something to do with myself when kids were at their dad's...it felt so unnatural... and now I barely have time to do my stuff before the kids are back!
I found zumba, a dance workout what on top of keeping me in shape made me feel good about myself... join a work out class... also, I had no idea a reading group from church meet every week on one of the days I didnt' have my kids, I promptly joined. I started fixing the house, i painted it, tore down the old wallpaper...i made it my own and it felt so good! stay out, find your old friens, GAL GAL and GAL, you'll be fine hon... it will get better.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
