Originally Posted By: lola
Ughh!!! why did I engage. I feel worse than I did before.


What did you expect?

He has done nothing to grow since you have split.

The question is what were you seeking to engage him?

And

No more I know I f@cked up and I shouldn't have blah blah blah...

WHY?

What is it inside you that needs this validation from him?

Find the WHY? and then find WHAT is causing it.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am