I'm sure she knows I have gone out on dates but says nothing.
I think she has made her mind up and won't ever change.
mind-reading. and does it matter?
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My W is still as cold towards me today as she was 3 months ago
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My decisions don't involve what she may or may not think. I'm doing things b/c I want to do them.
those two lines contradict what you're saying. it sounds like it bothers you that after 3 months she's still cold towards you. yet, you say that your decision doesn't involve what she may or may not thing. really?
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Is there anything else that might get her attention?
again, if you weren't looking for a reaction, then you wouldn't be asking this question.
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It's funny how the LBS makes changes the WAS alsways wanted to see. I think it pisses them off to see us making changes and enjoying ourselves.
mind-reading is a dangerous thing. don't take pleasure in the WAS getting pissed off over your changes. that's not the goal. i understand now that you don't do things to get a reaction from your spouse.
