I'm sorry I checked back after posting this and didn't see any post so I didn't know anyone responded.
~ I had my baby a week ago and my mom was here with me. He was there but texting the other women shortly after I had my princess. I found that to be quite disrespectful.
~ I am still in the house that we purchased together but he comes and goes as he so chooses which I feel my kids and I are being used as doormats.
~ I had to take my baby for an ultrasound Monday and he would not take us. I'm not to drive this early and I have no one out here (family wise) and so I had to drive myself and my three kids to her ultrasound with no help. He then texted and said that if a man took me that I better not think of coming back to the house and he should take care of us. Now, I didn't mention any man nor have I had contact with another man so I found that to be confusing.
~ The next day he texted and said that no man is allowed around his kids with the exception of his dad and him.
~ I don't text him unless he text me and even then it depends on what he has said in his text.
~ I still want my marriage to work but it seems hopeless with me being the only one working on it and praying (standing for my marriage).
Answers to questions asked:
newmama- It could very well be a mid life crisis but I don't really know. I thought it happened later on in life but I'll try posting this in MLC and see what they say. He wasn't very close to his mom, but he loved her to death. He doesn't seem to be grief stricken that I have noticed. I mean if he was would he be all over the place with other women? Who knows?
MrBond- I was staying so that my kids could have a relationship with their dad which isn't happening. He hasn't even helped after the birth of our last child a week ago. I'm so exhausted it's not even funny. I haven't texted or called asking him for help other than him taking us to the doctor which he didn't so oh well. My mom was here for the birth which was a blessing!
Last edited by naturallyblessed; 07/23/1010:44 PM.
