My pastor said that since my W is having trouble with making big decisions and moving on, that I might have to be the one to file. I said I couldn't, I can't break my vows. The only thing that would change my mind towards this would be infidelity.
Bravo. For the exact same reasons I took the "I won't resist, but I certainly won't assist, either" approach. Other than that - and not knowing your entire sitch which I'll read up on later - I'd say make your own decisions, let her agonize over hers, but keep you out of it.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
