Not a piecer myself, I look to getting my own D soon. I'm interested in how you found your happiness in spite of the process of the D that you're going through.
I suspect it has something to do with taking control of your life (and taking that control away from your WAS).
What are soem specific things that helped you accomplish that?
Any tips would be appreciated, as I'm having a down day and struggling to remind myself that life can and will be better.