So things are in perspective and strong now. He said he wants to start fresh and with a clear perspective of where we are going in the future and what we are wanting for "us". I feel so strong and confident, because I was able to tell him my needs and what I need from a partner and what I can responsibly contribute. We also are going to talk about IMAGO strategies that will help during conflict or any thing we may disagree on.

I feel armed and supported especially with all that I have learned and continue to educate myself with here on the forum.

Stick with it everyone be yourself for yourself give the you attention as I and look as deeply inward as you can and from there look even deeper, know what you really want and what you need to give yourself! I watched on Amazon video on demand "Earth Pilgrims" with F and was able to say so much with so little words, and also confirm my own inner peace and direction.

Much love and positive energy to all!


Me:25
fiance :29 about to be 30 in Sept.
together: 7.5 years
situation: separated 2.5 months
July 15th 2010 happily talking!
July 22nd, committed and ready to begin fresh

Last edited by resist failure; 07/23/10 09:23 PM.