My H always has to be the good guy, no matter what...For the past 18 months he has lied, cheated, stolen and basically just been an all around class A p***k.
To this day, he doesn't acknowledge the OW though they have now bought a house together...
He tried that "I can't trust you" BS with me and I learned early on not to own it...He has to earn my trust because he is the one who shattered our marriage vows, I am not going to play the "He needs to learn how to re-trust me because HE cheated on me" MLC BS line that I read so much of.
It took me a very very long time to get to the point where I am now and I had so much help from the vets here...
Without Him and them, I would not be where I am right now.
I am finally learning that some marriages just aren't meant to be saved, no matter how bad we want them to be.
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May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
