A lot of what your H wrote is standard script. MLCers spew about discontentment with their lives. That can include spouse, job, kids. It's a resentment about responsibility. It's about finding happiness before they die. It's about selfishness and entitlement to the max.
In the spew you, the LBS, may find some things that were said that sting. If they sting, you might want to look at them as things to work on for you.
Remember Irish this is your H's crisis. You did not break him and you cannot fix or control him.
This time you have been given is a gift. A gift to find out what it is that YOU want.
