W just sent a text that the chiropractor she works for preceived a hpone call from an Athletes Performance center the W interviewed with yesterday stating that the manager was very impressed with her, and they are looking forward to her working with them and their teams(W is a sports and theraputic massage therapist). I replied " I am very happy for you, good job!
Good job on congratulating her, it doesn't have to be over the top but it's cool to celebrate someone's success.
and with that note, congrats to you on your successes today, you did good, you could have easily fell back on to your old habits of arguing against her feelings but you didn't, you took the advice and eliminated several arguments, no small task, you did good!