Robx, Thank you for that insight. I feel my W's intents of sex is to have children and 'deal with the rest as it comes' as she would put it.
So far today, W came home from work. Me and the dog were hanging out in the garage. W joined us and asked we were in the garage I told her "To watch the rain" I asked W how her day was and W went on to talk about her annoying work day.
I had lunch cooking and just finished up as we walked back in the house. W changed and we both sat down and ate. W kept telling me about this 'pain' she is getting in her side and she does not know what it is. She said it could be due to the way her new uniform pants sit on her hip or could be due to 'other reasons'...I don't discard the other reason but two things
1. Way too soon to tell. I know every woman is different but she said she had this 'pain' for a few days now which would had been only 1 day after the last time we had unprotected sex and only 2 days since her last cycle. I am not saying it is not possible but the chances are very slim.
2. I think W wants to get pregnant so much she is psyching her self into thinking she maybe.
I don't want to throw up 'roadblocks' but it seems to me W has the expectation that each time we have sex it would be to try to conceive. So even if I had tried other 'methods' (as I have done so many times in the past) I think she would get upset and no longer would want to engage in sex.
M: 27, W: 25 Together since: 01/31/00 M: 10/4/09 (8 Months) ILBNILWY: 01/24/10 EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted). Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10 Retrouvaille: 09/10/10