The hardest part of seeing her on a semi-regular basis is that I see more and more of my old W which makes it harder to maintain that detachment. When I talk to her and look at her eyes, they communicate, “I want you” but her words and actions do not match.
Caution: STOP putting words into your wife's eye.
Oh the old...I SEE what I want more and more when I Dettach...but that makes it hard to stay dettached...problem.
Look...lets say you are baking an apple pie from scratch.
And about 30 minutes into baking it...it smells delicious...and it SMELLS done. So it must be DONE so you take it out early and cut a slice and find out that you should have waited another 30 minutes.
And now you fell like a dumbass cause the cooking dynamics of the origianl pie have been altered and you have to basically start all over again.
Those long dramatic pauses on your part?
Not as subtle as you might think.
Last edited by Jack_Three_Beans; 07/23/1006:46 PM. Reason: staying a step ahead of the spelling Nazi.
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