I am sure if she is thinking of me at all that it is not in a good way. I could not even answer your question about when she has thought about me in a good way for even a day.
All I feel from her is spite and hatred for me. I guess that is all I feel for her too.
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That is same for me too. I have been living my life, and she is so annoyed by it. I do not ask her permission for anything, and I do not tell her what I am doing. She is left guessing.
I have heard here that it is race between the WAS and LBS to save the marriage. I feel like in my Sitch that I would not be able to go back to our M even if she ever wanted too. I believe that she would never want the M back anyways. I do not see any signs at all that she does or ever would.
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I guess I should have used mad instead. She did give me $20 to take the kids to get something to eat. How nice of her. It is hard to feel anything for a woman that has done so much damage to our family. She says it is okay to divorce because she will make sure the kids are okay. I don't know how she thinks she will do that when divorce has such a negative impact on the kids the most.
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I guess I should have used mad instead. She did give me $20 to take the kids to get something to eat. How nice of her. It is hard to feel anything for a woman that has done so much damage to our family. She says it is okay to divorce because she will make sure the kids are okay. I don't know how she thinks she will do that when divorce has such a negative impact on the kids the most.
She's going to rationalize it until the end, a humane and "good" divorce, she did the right thing. What you can do is start looking forward to life on your own ( and your kids ), you have to be good so you can give to your wife.
It will take a while, but eventually you will tire of "getting your butt" kicked, and start looking forward to some of the things you are going to do for yourself ( I FINALLY got to that stage and it took me two years ).
The $20 is for me to take the kids tonight while she goes out to some party or something. She gave me $20 when she went to her sleepover with her girlfriends last Friday. I guess I can be bought for $20. Actually, I just like to be with the kids and have her gone. I would be with kids for nothing. I am a father, and I do not need money to take care of my kids.
I have do some butt kicking first in the divorce. I hope the outcome is in my favor. I still am waiting to talk to the attorney. I am few hundred short for the retainer, but I am coming up with it.
This situation is very stressful for me.
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Please start a new thread. This thread is getting a bit too long, so I'm locking it. Shorter threads improve the speed and flow of this online community.
