Ah ok... I dunno, i would tell her you are taking both since SHE is the one who filed for D... And since she can't even be botehred with the vet why entrust the dog with her?
I'm so very sorry about your dog. Your post made me cry, as I am a BIIIIG dog-lover. My "Big Puppy" is now 13, and having problems with arthritis, and I couldn't even watch "Marley and Me" without bawling (my dog is named "Harley" and looks EXACTLY like the dog in the movie).
You're in my prayers today and this weekend, buddy.
QS, not only is Allen right, but I think you need just such a "noble cause" to WIN right now. Seriously. A gallant fight for these dogs, successfully waged, will go a long way towards building your self-esteem and inner mental toughness.
She couldn't be botehred to show up this afternoon she clearly isn't willing to take responsability for even one Pet, let alone a marriage and a home.
To put the fear into you a bit here I think it was TWolf's thread where TWolf's Wayward wife was put in charge of her brother's two dogs for ONE AFTERNOON. She SPENT the afternoon with OM having sex at his place and left them out in the Sun all day.
They died of heatstroke.
Addicts cannot properly care for anything including themselves.
I have seen too many posts about wreckless wayward spouses who cause harm to those around them because they insisted on taking responsability for something while incapable of follow through
Your wife has proven today she's NOT capable of follow through.
She couldn't be botehred to show up this afternoon she clearly isn't willing to take responsability for even one Pet, let alone a marriage and a home.
No she showed up to the vet. Me, her, and her parents went to the vet together, and saw it through to the end.
What I was referring to was that instead of being at HOME this MORNING BEFORE the end, she supposedly went to work, which I have good intel means she was scoping out her new apartment complex.
She RAN from her dog as much as she could, just as hard she she RAN from the marriage.
She didn't offer me one single kind word today, and even started a fight. She is so deep in negative emotions toward me, that is is getting almost comical.
Me - 32 Her -30 Married - 7 Years Together - 9 Years No Kids 05/21 - Bomb 6/8 - Exposed 7/9 - Re-Exposed 06/11 - She Filed
The more civil and calm you are the worse she paints herself...
When you stand there pleasant and calm and she flails about in her emotional downspin she will be quickly losing all credibility and no one will have much respecty for her...
This is a good sign...
For someone who is SO HAPPY about divorce why is SHE the one who is projecting misery? lol
My "Big Puppy" is now 13, and having problems with arthritis, and I couldn't even watch "Marley and Me" without bawling (my dog is named "Harley" and looks EXACTLY like the dog in the movie).