How do I save my marriage to husband in MLC?

[ericmsant2]

RLay

Okay one more post and then I have to get some work done….

I WANT to let him go, but I don't know why I don't just do it.

You actually think you want to let him go but what you really want is the abuse to stop. What I think you really want is someone to tell you that it is okay to be angry. We’ll RLay it is okay to be angry.

I am just longing to be back in my M with my H because it was something I got used to

You got use to it because you were and are a VICTIM. You and your children deserve better.

I don't know how to deal with the aftermath

You deal with it one day at a time…make YOURSELF a promise that TODAY you are not going to quit on YOURSELF or your kids. That today you will not be afraid. That today, you will make it. You can quit tomorrow Rlay just not today.

I feel so lonely and misunderstood, abandoned.

Feelings change….for a while I “felt” like I hated my wife. For a while I “felt” so f’in angry about her, her actions, my life, pretty much everything…those feelings CHANGED. Want to know how to change them? Take the step of trying to HEAL. That is how they change. Take the step girl…you can do it. I believe in you!