Quote: One thing in particular seems to happen in both cases: there is an unrecognized or unresolved point of non-negotiation. Something that we think can't be negotiated because we are not detached enough.
What do you mean here? What exactly IS detachment? When you don't let your emotions hinge on every little thing the WAS does? I am not certain that I completely understand it at all.
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
