I have nothing against SH, just bear in mind where he is coming from:

Posted in Dec 2007:
Originally Posted By: Struggling_Husba
I wanted to add that my situation is not really a failure of divorce busting techniques, because I never applied them very diligently. I did get a life, and I did detach, but I was never able to act as if all was well. Nor was I able to make each interaction with my wife a pleasant one. I'm just not that good at pretending, lying and hiding how I feel.

So fear not, maybe Divorce Busting will work for you.


Our advice comes from our experience.

I see SH's advice much like the well intentioned friends or family's, telling you to end it quickly becuase they don't want to see you hurt.


Quote:

I'm just not that good at pretending, lying and hiding how I feel


A very telling comment.

Is it lying?

I guess your view might influence how successfully you DB...but that smile is MY experience.

Last edited by Jack_Three_Beans; 07/23/10 04:55 PM. Reason: f you grit...f you spelling Nazi. : )

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