How To Tell The Kids

[DanF]

Funny, the similarities continue. I am a diet coke fiend.

Me too!

Also, dig a great cigar. Going tomorrow to a tasting at the local tobacco shop. I think it's Olivios this time. A good GAL event.

Right on! My faves are Rocky Patels (1990, 1992, Old World Reserve, Sun Grown), Gurkha's (Medium to full), CAO's. Lots of stuff. I order online from Cigars International and can usually find some great deals!

Also a rocker. Those are all good tunes.

Rock-on baby! Great tunes ALWAYS lift my mood. I've been singing in the garage and on the deck partying with the neighbors a lot lately. It's like I'm back in college!

I don't think you are pursuing anymore. Yeah, you still are interested in what's going on, but it's not like you're following her around the house asking for answers. You have come a LONG way! We both have.

I think I have finally dropped the rope completely. I couldn't care less what she knows, does, thinks or says anymore. it is liberating. I've been hanging out with friends a lot and am starting to see the world for what it is again.

The best revenge is being cool hand Luke. Let her get anxious for a change. If you just look like you're chilling out all the time, it's going to start getting under her skin. Here is where a good stogie can help. It's hard to look (and be for that matter) anything but relaxed sitting on the stoop puffing away.

Cool on the stoop is the way to go. I get more relaxed, she gets more stressed. I talked to my mortgage broker last night and also a friend who is refinancing a house somewhat near mine. His latest appraisal came in 25% lower than last time. Not looking good for my home sitch. There will likely be no equity left. W hasn't got a clue about anything financial. I am putting all my plans together and she continues to fiddle while Rome burns. I'll get a plan together and burn her dumb ass.

Of course, it's way easier to give advice to someone else than apply it to yourself. Consider the source. I'm in the same boat.

Lots of us are man.....lots of us are.....

Thanks for the support and you keep up the good work too!