her feelings are her feelings right now, she felt differently about you before, I'm sure at one point she thought she couldn't live with out you, love you more than anything and now her feelings change.
What does that tell you?
Feelings change, they are not static, they're dynamic.
So if feelings can change, is it possible feelings can change again.
Damn right they can.
So don't be too obsessed with what she wrote in her journal, she is following her feelings, she's emotional creature, she's in love with her feelings, they guide her with everything she does so just let them, you can't stop those feelings anyways so all you can do with her feelings is... AGREE WITH THEM. Just like I've been mentioning to you to help squash those arguments, agree with her feelings.
Why agree with her feelings? Because you start doing this enough times you're going to get on the good side of those feelings, she's going to associate you with agreeing with her feelings instead of being against them. And then... .she will associate her good feelings with you. It's very possible her feelings will change about you, she'll feel good about you but you have to do the things that facilitate that change.
Is this guaranteed to work? No, no guarantees in life.
But it's better than grovelling, begging, pleading, gift buying, jumping through hoops and crawling into a dark corner and lying in a fetal position sucking your thumb - mind you, that's just my opinion.
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gaspari fatigues
Are you referring to Rich Gaspari - back in the day Mr.Olympia runner up (late 80s, early 90s), man that guy was awesome, I was a huge fan of his.
