If he wants to bond to his wife its the fastest way to do so.
I disagree. I think he needs to learn how to add more Legumes to their diet.
Start making the best damn no bake peanut butter cookies in all of Erie county. Share her interest and help her to benefit from it. Maybe put a fall crop of brocolli in the back yard. Slow down and learn to enjoy what you have before it slips through your fingers like sand.
"Emotional Bond," he says. Watching the sunset over Lake Ontario as the sail boats come in while sharing his dreams for the future with her. Don't you think she would be listening and excited and want to share them with you. She's trying to. I dont know, maybe thats dumb. Good thing its gonna rain.
Sharing, communicating, making yourself vunerable, and fulfilling another's desires, that seems more intimate than, "Wife and I were getting intimate so I reached for a condom."
Well the way I look at it, is she cheated him and has been being an a$$hole to the guy for 7 months now. If opening them legs is indicative of her "opening up" ( which it is ), then he needs to legs to open more often if he wants to get deep into the heart of the matter.
Sex and affection was the same way that a strong love addiction was created to the OM, I believe a Husband or wife for that matter should have access to the same tools.
Less talking, more doing. Get your wife in the sack as much as you can OIN.
