If he wants to bond to his wife its the fastest way to do so.
I disagree. I think he needs to learn how to add more Legumes to their diet.
Start making the best damn no bake peanut butter cookies in all of Erie county. Share her interest and help her to benefit from it. Maybe put a fall crop of brocolli in the back yard. Slow down and learn to enjoy what you have before it slips through your fingers like sand.
"Emotional Bond," he says. Watching the sunset over Lake Ontario as the sail boats come in while sharing his dreams for the future with her. Don't you think she would be listening and excited and want to share them with you. She's trying to. I dont know, maybe thats dumb. Good thing its gonna rain.
Sharing, communicating, making yourself vunerable, and fulfilling another's desires, that seems more intimate than, "Wife and I were getting intimate so I reached for a condom."
