To clarify on the facebook issue: I don’t believe he still has kids blocked from his “wall”. He did for a time – about 6 weeks ago. He had me blocked and the kids, so I was suspicious. This is when I went into his FB account and did some fishing. He got mad, and that was the weekend of the big fight –apt hunting – me getting that text he meant to send to ex¬-gf that was sexual – kids hearing that he wanted D, all of that. About 6 weeks after the bomb and roughly 6 weeks ago.
After all of this is when the big email exchange occurred where I told him if he wanted out, to go. That if he was going to have inappropriate relationships, he should not live at home. He stayed. At that point I thought we were working on R – he even asked about counseling. As we know, he wasn’t serious about working on R.
Unknowns: whether or not he is still having inappropriate conversations/relationships.
Whether he is still trolling for people on FB and just taken it underground.
Whether he is or isn’t in EA/PA. Highly doubt PA but EA very possible.
Knowns: Takes his cell wherever he goes, even into bathroom.
Looking for that “in love” feeling. Doesn’t have it for me.
Pitching a fit about having to go on this weekend retreat
Has talked to both male/female friends about M issues but only the FT – the professional – once.
Does not consider himself as having MLC but is acting like a teenager
Hides in the world of Xbox
Does not want to work on M because he “has no feelings” for me.
Doesn’t go out after work. Is home most of the time he’s supposed to be.
Did start working out, lost weight, working on appearance, etc...
