Started today with the kids not wanting me to leave for work, I dont think the W understands that our kids are picking up on our tension, she probably just thinks they will be fine, no big deal.
What I cant get out of my head is the fact that she wrote about wanting things to be cooperative, that we tried again and its over. I believe that is why she is being so civil in person, she thinks I will lose it and do anything to get back at her for going through this again. I believe this is all part of her plan, If I just be nice and civil to him he will go along with it.
At what point do i just say, forget it. I am planning on sending an email with a list of bills, breaking it down that ok, since we are separated this is your half this is mine. Not planning on an angry email just laying out the facts. I have seen many WA's that want their cake, well if I dont lay down at least the financial boundary then I am letting her have her cake and eat it too.
