Why not, "W, I know we've been more affectionate these past few weeks than we have been in a long time. We ML for the first time in two years. We are talking about you moving back in the house. My mind is starting to move in a direction of possible reconciliation but I don't want to walk on eggshells, or even worse, get into trying to 'mind read' your intentions. I have learned being straight up and talking about it is the healthiest way for me to be so I want to ask you what your intentions are. Are you thinking about reconciliation or are you just moving back into the house with no desire to reconcile?"
