Near WAW with EA - almost textbook sich

[doing my best]

Settling into this....wow. So tough.

It is EXTREMELY difficult. Hard for me to go on each day knowing that there may be more to this and there is nothing I can do. Hard for me to put on a façade and NOT act the way I feel. W is very sensitive to any behaviors which could appear as controlling. In fact as I research this and listen to her, this is really a big core issue with her and is the primary reason she feels she needs to separate....to get away (unless the EA is continuing). She feels that I am not aware of many of the subtle things that I do.

I have done a lot of research and am working on this particular trait to better understand it. Asking her rather than telling. I found some resources out there that I am going to latch onto.

Any other resources?

DMB