Puppy, i agree there are somethings that made me suspicious but i have checked as much as possible and found nothing. Although the signs are there a lot of the timelines don't make sense. When she goes out she usually tells me where she is going. Our friends have told me she is spending a lot of time at their house. Most of the time she comes home straight after work. So if she is having an A I dont know when she is fitting it in.
If we separate we have to sell the house as that is our biggest asset. Do you think i should give her the ultimatum. I am not asking her to pick up the M where we left off but just to either commit to trying to work things out or else to leave. I am just getting tired or the "living in limbo" bit.
Excuse the pun but sometimes it feels like you are a puppy in the pound waiting to get picked and i dont like that feeling. I am a confident adult and i will get on with my life with or without her. Having said that I want to try and save my M but not at the price of my sanity
