New here, not sure where to start

[Truegritter]

We both want to fix it now or see some indication that the situation is improving.

Read all there is on MLC.

Understand the process and what they may be going through

Then put it on a shelf.

It doesn't matter where they are or when it started or how long YOU think they have left.

This is their journey and you need to get out of the way.

You cannot speed this up but you can make it take longer.

So

If you have an expectation of seeing results then just go ahead and tell them what that is and then see what happens.

I just wrote this on another thread.

How would you want to be loved?

Only when you are not scared, not lost, not confused, not f@cking up?

Or

To live the love you would want yourself.

Part of the journey for you is finding the meaning of love for you.

And making it part of your life.

Living it.