GAG, Yes, please get a thread going over here. You have lots of valuable advice and an interesting sitch to share.
Does your H have an ow?
From what I understand it is normal (is that even a word associated with MLC?) for them to withdraw back into the tunnel for a while after contact.
CW - JMO here, but if your H admitted he's not happy I would tend to believe him. They're all about themselves during this crisis and I don't think he's taking anyone's feelings into consideration except his own. This is what I've read and experienced with my own H.
