How to tell if there is an A

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to him, we aren't married anymore and his business is no longer my business.

WORD FOR WORD the EXACT same line I got from my wife. WORD FOR WORD.

"We are separated and no longer together, so whatever I do is no longer your business".

She makes it a HARD POINT to make sure I don't know what she is doing, and if it weren't for my intel operation, I would have absolutely no clue.

he does not want to be married to me.

I hear that QUITE OFTEN, and she tells EVERYONE she meets that exact line. Seriously, like EVERYONE she tells how I was "selfish" and "never a partner for 7 years". WHO IS SHE TRYING TO CONVINCE HUH?

so by telling him to stop the behaviour for the sake of our marriage, he'd just laugh at me and tell me that it's over and that he no longer loves me.

WORD FOR WORD.

"You and I are OVER. My heart is no longer yours, and hasn't been for a long time. I need/want to find someone new that fulfills my needs, and it will NEVER be you".

OR

"Tell him I am single again and "ON THE MARKET"

OR

"I just want some "FUN". There are people out there that want to *#$@ me, and since we are no longer together why shouldn't I have some "fun". I am not going to be a maid this Summer".


IT IS ALL SCRIPT. But - and this is a MAJOR truth dart for YOU/US here:

The WAS reading from a SCRIPT can actually be a VERY CONVINCING ACTOR, and if they are COMMITTED to the ROLE beyond everything else - IT CAN CONSUME THEIR LIFE AND THOUGHTS TO THE POINT THAT THEY NO LONGER RECOGNIZE REALITY.

Your job is to turn of a HUGE "Truth Fan" and blow away the "fog" and see where the chips fall.