I just feel the ring is a very telling sign of where her heart and mind lies at this point in time.
Remember that Confusion = MLC. Her having the ring on is telling you, and the rest of the world that she is confused. The MLC'er wants it all. They want their cake and they want to eat it too. They don't want you to move off of the spot that they left you in. You are their security blanket. Plan B. In case their world blows up. You shouldn't move.
For her to progress down the tunnel you need to move. You can't stay in one spot. You must lead her through the journey on the path that comes home. If not you both get stuck inside your journies.
Be the light in the lighthose, shining bright marking the path that she needs to travel.
