I know, I know....trying. I could care less about her at this point. I just want it to be over aqnd done with
M: 39 W: 39 Kids (3): S10; S8; D4 Married 14 years Togethor: 18 years Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009 Bomb Dropped (about being "so done"): 2/17/10 Current Status: In counseling
Rob - for future reference, what I was going for was something along the lines of: "she doesn't deserve a person as awesome, funny, handsome, and smart as you". Let her go....she will rgret letting you go for the rest of her life. This situation will not impact your kids at all and it will be over very soon".
Thanks
M: 39 W: 39 Kids (3): S10; S8; D4 Married 14 years Togethor: 18 years Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009 Bomb Dropped (about being "so done"): 2/17/10 Current Status: In counseling
She doesn't deserve a person as awesome, funny, handsome, and smart as you. Let her go....she will rgret letting you go for the rest of her life. This situation will not impact your kids at all and it will be over very soon.
Or at least we'll be freaking awesome single guys! I appreciate the sarcastic humor. At least enough to tell another dude he's handsome and all that other stuff.
Keep your head up bro.
ADAPT. OVERCOME. IMPROVISE. -Tom Highway
Me: 43 W: 40 S12 & S9 Married 17yrs Together 20yrs
Hey guys. This is the right way to think. I was/am nervous about the whole starting over thing too, but you know what? Last night I went out for a sandwich and a beer and talked/flirted with a cute blonde bartender that wasn't wearing a wedding ring and it was easy and FUN! I always find myself looking for wedding rings on women now. I never noticed before.
Be strong. Make this fun. Realize how truly pathetic she really is and feel better about yourselves.
Haha....you guys are great. Keep the positivity going
M: 39 W: 39 Kids (3): S10; S8; D4 Married 14 years Togethor: 18 years Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009 Bomb Dropped (about being "so done"): 2/17/10 Current Status: In counseling
Hope your day is better today. There are going to be really up days and really down days, and eventually you'll have more up days than down days, and life will have a new "normal" to it. I understand that reads about as clear as mud, but I think you get my point. ; )
Not so good.....the divorce proceedings are starting to get ugly. She is alleging all kinds of crazy sh&t and doind some really sneaky stuff with respect to financing
M: 39 W: 39 Kids (3): S10; S8; D4 Married 14 years Togethor: 18 years Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009 Bomb Dropped (about being "so done"): 2/17/10 Current Status: In counseling