Sounds like a good time. Funny, the similarities continue. I am a diet coke fiend. Well, was. Drinking a lot of water nowadays. Also, dig a great cigar. Going tomorrow to a tasting at the local tobacco shop. I think it's Olivios this time. A good GAL event. Also a rocker. Those are all good tunes.
I don't think you are pursuing anymore. Yeah, you still are interested in what's going on, but it's not like you're following her around the house asking for answers. You have come a LONG way! We both have. I agree with whoever said to take it slow on the removing stuff. Yeah, it would be sweet, but it kind of smacks of revenge to me. And it WILL upset the kids. The best revenge is being cool hand Luke. Let her get anxious for a change. If you just look like you're chilling out all the time, it's going to start getting under her skin. Here is where a good stogie can help. It's hard to look (and be for that matter) anything but relaxed sitting on the stoop puffing away. What's your favorite smoke BTW?
Of course, it's way easier to give advice to someone else than apply it to yourself. Consider the source. I'm in the same boat.
Later.
ADAPT. OVERCOME. IMPROVISE. -Tom Highway
Me: 43 W: 40 S12 & S9 Married 17yrs Together 20yrs