my h asked for a d. to him, we aren't married anymore and his business is no longer my business. he does not want to be married to me.
so by telling him to stop the behaviour for the sake of our marriage, he'd just laugh at me and tell me that it's over and that he no longer loves me.
he is the one who was adamant that d was the only solution.
that's why i asked, we're separated and he's just waiting for the year of separation to end so he can quickly file.
i don't need proof and i know who he'd choose. and it wouldn't be me. he wouldn't do anything for the sake of our marriage. he thinks our marriage was a mistake so he wouldn't do anything for it. he would rather throw gasoline on it because it's not burning fast enough.
so i have my answer.
allena, sunnyd - you have helped me finally detach.
